Breaking up in the correct way is always difficult. The right words to choose, the correct tone, waiting for the perfect situation , forcing that situation to arrive so you land up in some petty fight and swoop in with your break up line the same way you swooped in with your pick up line the first time you met that person.
It has to be taken care that you are not mean, you dont hurt your gf/bf and also make sure at the same time that he/she was the reason of the break up and not you and you were only forced into it.
Keeping all this aside i just came across a cool advertisement which shows the new age break up.
Its such a tension free no load no stress chilled out break up ever seen.
Have a look.
I cant help but watch the ad everytime it comes during those IPL breaks and smile everytime and wonder if only life would have been so simple. The couple are so into each other a few seconds before and immediately after that comes the break up line " You dont love me anymore"
I love the acting by the cute girl in the advertisement. The initial innocent surprise and then the self realization expression after giving the break up line a lil thought and then deciding to be "freinds" only to "move on" in split second.
The Universe loves speed so dont second doubt when in doubt. So much time is wasted in breaking up and the moving on. If only universally this could be the norm acceptable by every couple half the emotinal atyachaar is already woosh and gone!!
Some Standard Break Up lines
1.The Reversal - " Its not you, Its me. You are just the best person anyone can get. I dont deserve you."
2.The Forced Fight- " You know what pisses me off the most about you. This fuckin attitude of yours. You think I cant survive without you."
3.The Self Sacrifice Suicidal - "Well if you're so mad at me why dont you just dump me"
4.The Destiny's Storeroom - "If it is meant to be we will find each other again SOMEDAY. But for now lets call it off"
5.The Trade-Off - " Our relationship hasnt been good for a while now. I think we shall take a break and see other people"
6.The Boredom Syndrome - "There is no spark, no spice no connection left between us. I guess what we had between us was just plain infatuation"
MOVE ON Man..!!
19 comments:
hahahahaha...nice....though i am wondering...have u broken up with anyone recently?? :-P
the ad is great...but i don't think it would be great if life were that simple...it would just be boring...where's the challenge??
Good post. Any experience??
gud 1. d ads r apt.:)
Nice. :)
Life must moved on!
Haha so true!
So bored of these lines. they really ought to invent new ones. What do you say?
@ vishaal - no no.. no break ups recently.. i've been single and available for quite some time now :p ..!!
@sanket - thanks
@manali - seriously perfect ads
@ chandrika - thanks for visiting
@ lavender - we can brainstorm..and come up wid something fresh and innocative like the docomo ad lol.. n u are bored of these lines indicate they have been used on you or used by you on more than one occasion..?? :p
u always comeup with something nice...gud yaar
Break ups make me sadd..:( i leave it without much thought now..:0 How can i follow u.I dont find the follow side bar?? !!
@ sumi - thanks a lot.. :)
@ madhu - break ups are always sad..!!
the follow side bar is ther dear.. scroll down.. left hand side of the window.. :)
Hahha. I loved reading this post !
Nice blog by the way :)
@vismitha - thanks a lot..!! keep reading.. :)
he he. well put. :).
hey,
good one dude....i liked the concept of the ad too..it has given a cool chiilled out approach to breakup..
cheers dude...
dude i cant believe i didnt read this earlier .. lol enjoyed the post man nice read ./..!!!!
wont this lead to more unsuccessful relationships.. i mean if break up is so simplified, ppl wont try to deal with their partners shortcomings.. instead jst break it off for the non-existent ideal mate.
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hey..cool post...i love the type of topics u write about...keep going :)
nice post!! and i completely agree with u on this one...its not so easy to jus break up and walk away! Wish it was as simple as its shown.
i like number 3 =P and 6!
Letting go is the only the answer sometimes =)
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